I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex, is that ok?



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Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now, I started a relationship with him as my last one ended, kinda a rebound that turned into more in the end i suppose.

The thing is tho, he doesnt know but of course i still had feelings for my ex and after a few months i saw him and we slept together, i feel terrible but it was just a closure thing....i think!? I fantasise about him alot like not in sex but when im on my own and he tells me he does the same about me but hes moved on with someone else also.

do you think it was ok for me to have slept with my ex cos it was just a one last thing we both wanted to have with each other n i knew wouldnt happen again, and why do i keep fanatsising about him???? and why does he still want to get close to me??? n think about me like that??

pls help me im sooo confused about everythin im feeling!! thanks!!!!




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Tell him


To me what she did was mormal for anybody espically if they were can of in a serious realtionship. I think that she should tell her boyfriend that she still has feeling for her ex and that she slept with him the lomging she don't tell him the more she hurting there realtionship and he really care about her he would find a way to understand it.

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