He Lied and Cheated - I Still Want Him

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Ok, here's my dilemma. There's this guy I really like. He took the time to get to know me despite the fact I had a boyfriend at the time... one thing led to another and i cheated on my boyfriend with him.

I broke up with my boyfriend only to find out that he has a girlfriend of 5 years! I would just end our "relationship" there, but our chemistry is unbelievable. He said so himself! We continue to be together behind his girlfriend's back... should i continue this in hope he will fall for me and break up with his girlfriend? i'm not sure how to approach him about the situation without sounding like a pathetic fool! any advice you give would help a lot!

User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Wake up

do u really think this guy loves u? hoestly, he dont, know how to love truthfully, he's a freaken player who's wants more then one sex partner, your allowing him to play......
honey wake up smell the coffee, he will always lie and he cant make up his mind how weak is that, what a confuse indivua!!!!!!!!
u need to step out of the this circle and really get out and meet other people, get with a girlfriend and get all dress up and go out play have fun enjoy yourself and mingle with some guys and realize theres other fishes in the sea why i know this i finally got over a same situation and thank god after all the loney nites when he was with the other girlfriend and all the lies, in my face i found out 2 years and i was just wasting my time.... love your self and have respect for u and dump him girlfriend peace n love

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