Should I Admit to Having Cheated?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I have been in a loving relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years now. During that time I have never that about or wanted to be with another man. This all changed when an x boyfriend came back in to my life. We were spending and evening together when one thing lead to another and before I knew it I had cheated on my boyfriend. I do not want to have an affair or continue this relationship. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and do not want to lose him. My question is should I tell him that I slept with another man? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Tell him Back in May I had a conversation with my boyfriend about how I wanted to have some fun at college and not feel attached. He proceeded with... do what you have to do. Don't stop doing something on account of me. We've been together for more than a year. We have had our ups and downs... usually about stupid things. I went out with another guy and did things I am very ashamed of. If it weren't for my mistake. I wouldn't have realized how much I trule love my boyfriend. I say that if you're smart you'll keep it to yourself until you know for sure that you're going to get married. When you are about to get married, you tell him what happened, and when it happened. Explain to him that it happened the one time and without it you probably wouldn't be with him today. He will then understand. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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