I want her back so bad, but after a week, she says she loves someone elseWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male Hi im j (21), me and my ex-girl freind b(19), had been together for alomost three years. We were really good friends before we got together. She had a boy-friend when i met her.We were madly in love and she always said that she wanted to marry me. A month ago, i went to colorado,for 10 days. We talked the whole time i was gone and she said that she, really wanted me to come home. When I got back, it was a little wierd. She wasn't kissing me like usual. I asked her what was wrong and she said that she just didn't miss me like she should have. She broke up with me a couple of weeks after that. This was about a month ago we've seen eachother a few times since then. We fought most of the time. But last night she camr to pick up her stuff, from my house. We just sat, talked and cried. I could tell she was having second thoughts. Then she got cold, and said that we.re not meant to be together and she thinks, she's in love with someone else. But i know she's thinks she might regret this. Does she still love me, and how do i get her back. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male Be her friend I'am in the same situation. Except for we had our first real fight over my backup house and her backup guy. She moved out of my house into a trailer dated a guy and fiqured out she wanted me. So she asked me to sell my house quit my job and move in with her(crazy). Then a week later she gives me the we ain't meant to be speech and started dating her backup guy again. Anyways its been only 1 month and she had a fight with him already and well she called her (friend me) and I went over there and basically patched things up if you know what I mean(he he ). You see we fought for the first 2 weeks(she was really being cold). Then I changed it over to all positive things and regained our freindship. Just tell her that you are going out with freinds, excersising, sports, and having a blast(make it up) and your there for her anytime she needs you. Do not fight with her if she starts to get mad change the subject fast. This has worked wonders if she still loves you truly. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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