I know he cheated on meWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female my bf just broke up with me couple days ago. we've been seeing each other for 2 months before i left him to go study abroad, since then we had long distance relationship. in our 6th motnhs relationship, he was asking to take a break for a week because he said we need to figure out things why we fought a lot of times and he promised me that time that he'll back to me but actually it all lies. he then broke up with me with a family issue excuse. not long before he broke up with me, he put his pics with one girl that he mentioned earlier to me. I know he cheated on me. I am hurt so bad, when we talked on the phone, he was p*ssed at me because i accepted the break up without arguing with him. then he told me something like, well, we still be friends right? if we're meant to be, we will be together. He knows that i am gonna go home to my country in the next 3 months. my questions are: 1. is there any meaning by him saying: "well, we still be friends right? if we're meant to be, we will back together again." 2. how to get him back? because i still love him and i just dont wanna loose something that we've had before. our happiness was unreplaceable with anything. we were so in love but everything soon changed after couple months of our long distance relationship, last thing i know, he has a new gf. it happened so fast, less than a month. 3. do you think, he's gonna contact me if i am already home? 4. how to make him want me back so bad? 5. do i need to wait for him to contact me? for how long? thanks. i'll look forward to recieve the advice. -bluemoon- User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male Move on dump him he is a loser u have only been seeing him for two months you have nothing really invested in the relationship . get out while you are ahead. you are just homesick and lonely, trust me 5 months ago I moved from Japan to Korea to pay for a wedding since i landed my ex sent me the worst messages on instant messenger and stopped emailing me all together, since she has had her "internet" boyfriend come by work as well as email me (by the way his email is andrei.101) Now i just spent 1000 dollars and week in hong kong as my vacation wating to talk to her and she hung up the phone on me while still persists on telling my family that she really loves me and claiming i am abusive because she got injured while i was stopping her from putting a cigerette out in my eye because i was a little frantic from the scissors in my arm.... I think honestly you havent any reason to move on u should never take any shit from anyone in a relationship and anyone who really loves u isnt going to make your life harder they are going to make your life easier if by the 3rd month you are unhappy its not going to work and get out The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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