Dumped by SOUL MATEWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male I am a saved young man who was recently dumped by a saved woman I believed was my soul mate, when I say that she complete me, she did just that but she told me that God told her that she deserve better and that I was not what he has for her. So how do you deal with that me being a christian, I am not trying to be anger at God but now she treats me like I am a nobody when she see me at church, or around. If I speak she turns her head or gets really nasty, but she was the one who told me that if she want to talk to me she will call me and when ever she see me she said she will speak but it seams that she hates me now. I some what feel that this breakup was my falt. How do I get over being dumped by my soulmate. User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female Pray Perhaps you are being a bit harsh with the poor bloke.....she sounds a bit immature. No relationship falls apart because of one person. You were probably not really suited to each other and she was not being really honest about her needs and feelings as you were going along. There are plenty of nice girls in the church- she just did not appreciate youand you could not make it work. There must be things that you learned from your time with her. Things that you would not do again. Also somethings she said must have had a grain of truth so have a think and a pray about what God really is telling you at the moment. Remember you are wonderfully loved and if you look you will find. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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