I'm In Love with Another Man



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I'm married, but in love with someone else. It's very, very complicated. The person I'm in love with is my fourth cousin. I know that sounds bad but he makes me feel attractive and sexy again! My husband doesn't pay me any attention anymore. We never intended for anything to happen. It just did. But I can't help it! I think of him all the time. Not only that I come from a very, very, very, religious family background. So that makes it even more complicated!! I don't want to dissapoint anyone in my family, but I can't help how I feel! We are very close, I feel I can tell him everything and he's not judging me or waiting for me to say something wrong so he can go and tell everyone what a screw up I am! He makes me feel so good and pretty again! I dont' know what to do! I'm so confused! Can anybody help me?





User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
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I just read Rick Warren's Purpose Driven Life and he mentions how it is natural and normal for us to feel for someone else and even for our bodies to react, it's what we do with it that matters. Restrain from living what your mind is telling you. God isn't putting this in your path, it is the devil testing you. Good luck to you.

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