She found out I messed around with another girlWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I met my girl friend while I was dating another girl. We recently started dating and she found out I messed around once with another girl. She already had trust issues and this didnt help. I really care for and want her back how do I go about this? Thanks User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Wait a few years You say she already had trust issues? You idiot!!! Of the people you could've chosen to cheat on- you chose the special girl. I don't think you're getting this one back (at least not any time soon). If it was easy for her to let you go- it will be easy for her to keep you there. (Even if you do, being with you will only break her heart, and kill her slowly inside) But I don't think you even let yourself earn the "can be forgiven for cheating" badge. You didn't even let your relationship take root before you pulled it out of the ground. I'm sorry. My advice is, if you think she's worth it - wait a few years... then try your luck The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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