i want a different guy, but i still love my boyfriend, what do i do??



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Ok I have been dating this guy for a year now, and we love eachother very much. But every since we started dating I have cheated on him, and the bad thing is that I dont feel bad about it. I recently met this guy on the internet and we hung out twice, but I dont really know what his inttentions are. But I cant get him off my mind, Ive tried to leave him alone and if he wnats to talk to me he can call me. Well come to find out...Im not doing so good at that. Last weekend I also met this other guy, and well after the 12 hours we spent together we had sex, which I regret now. But I also have really strong feelings for him and I dont know what to do.Me and my Boyfriend have been fighting constantly for the past 2 months and Ive wanted to tell him so many times that I cheat on him all the time. But I just cant bring myself to do it, I dont want to lose him, and I know he doesnt want to lose me. but I still have the urge to cheat...and to be with someone else. what should I do??




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That sucks. Its hard to walk out the door not knowing what's on the other side!! But just work at it and try your hardest to find your true feelings. If you end up loosing the one you really love it's gonna hurt BAD. Remember this: NEVER LEAve the ONE YOU LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE BEACAUSE THE ONE YOU LIKE WITH LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE.

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