What should I do?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I am currently in a relationship with someone who is very good to me. We have been together for almost 2 years. I keep going back to my ex-boyfriend and having sex with him. I can't seem to shake him. I know if my current boyfriend finds out, he will be very hurt. It seems that I have no peace! Everytime I build myself up to break things off with my ex, I end up at his house. He says he loves me and wants to be with me, but he wants me to be okay with him seeing other women all the other negative things that come with being with him. He knows that I will not accept those things and is the reason we are not together right now. I know he will end up hurting me again if I get back with him, but I still can't let go of him. I love my current boyfriend and I don't what him to find out. I am looking for some positive advice on what to do about this situation. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Say goodbye to both I think that you should break it off with both of them, you need time to yourself to figure out what you REALLY want. Im sure your current boyfriend will be hurt, but im sureit'll hurt way more for him finding out later. How would you feel if you were in his position? Im sure you'd feel like crap. Keep your current as a friend and tell him that you just need time to think things through, and that you have things going on in your life that you need to deal with before getting any seriouser. I hope this helped. Much luck to you. - Ashley The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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