should I even continue trying if he keeps telling me he doesnt love me anymore ?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, said he didn't love me anymore and didn't even want to take another chance at working things out . We had been going out for over a year , and he was my first real boyfriend . I am 21 years old , and I took our relationship really seriously. Anyway , I am still very much in love with him and I want to get him back so badly . But , should I even continue trying if he keeps telling me he doesnt love me anymore ? And another thing I hate , is that , as soon as he broke up with me , about two weeks later, he got back in contact with his ex-girlfriend , that he hasn't seen or talked to in over a year . Which I find pretty strange . And now they've been talking and making plans to hang out together, which makes me feel sick to my stomach :( I really feel like they might end up getting back together and I just dont know what to do . I know we're meant to be together , deep down , I feel that , if he would just spend some time with me , he could fall back in love with me. Maybe I'm just dillusional... I don't know . But , how can I make him see that he should give me another chance ? And how can I make him see that he's better off with me then his ex girlfriend ? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Same boat I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL IM GOING THROUGHT THE SAME THING WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 3 YEARS AND IM GOING CRAZY JUST THINKING ABOUT HIM GETTING BACK WITH HIS EX GIRLFRIEND The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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