What should I do?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I am currently in a relationship with someone who is very good to me. We have been together for almost 2 years. I keep going back to my ex-boyfriend and having sex with him. I can't seem to shake him. I know if my current boyfriend finds out, he will be very hurt. It seems that I have no peace! Everytime I build myself up to break things off with my ex, I end up at his house. He says he loves me and wants to be with me, but he wants me to be okay with him seeing other women all the other negative things that come with being with him. He knows that I will not accept those things and is the reason we are not together right now. I know he will end up hurting me again if I get back with him, but I still can't let go of him. I love my current boyfriend and I don't what him to find out. I am looking for some positive advice on what to do about this situation. User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female don't call him Wow, really need to talk to your current boyfriend, and let him know what you have been doing, and why. Also, break it off for good with your ex, it's not worth it, you are worth so much more. However, don't be alarmed if your current boyfriend wants to end things, you should go with your head up high, and take time out for YOU, don't go to your ex. On another note, don't call him, don't call him, I know it's hard I've been there, but it does get better. Good luck MR The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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