EVERYTHING MAKES ME JEALOUSWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MY BF RIGHT NOW CAUSE HE SAYS I GET JEALOUS OVER EVERYTHING. I ADMIT I DO. FOR EXAMPLE, I KNOW HE WATCHES PORN. HOWEVER, I GET MAD CUZ I NOTICED HE DOES IT AFTER WE HANG OUT. EVERYTIME WE GO OUT HE KEEPS LOOKING AT THE OTHER GIRLS FRONTS AND BACKS. THE PROBLEM IS WHEN WE GO OUT TO EAT AND THERE'S A PRETTY GIRL CLOSE BY. HE JUST KEEPS WATCHING HER. HE ALWAYS PRETENDS HE'S NOT THOUGH. EVERYTIME THERE'S SEX OR SEXY WOMEN ON TV I PUT MY HANDS OVER HIS EYES. I GET JEOLOUS WHEN MY COUSIN, THE GIRL HE REALLY LIKED BEFORE ME HANGS AROUND HIM. I GET MAD WHEN HE RATHER KEEP PICS IN HIS PHONE OF A GIRL WHO I KNEW HE LIKED OR TEXT HER ON MYSPACE AND NOT ME.I GET JEALOUS WHEN I'M AROUND HIM IN HIS ROOM, HE DOES STUFF ON HIS COMPUTER AND FORGET I'M EVEN THERE. WHAT SHOULD I DO TO CALM MYSELF DOWN??? WE HAVE TALKED BUT I STILL GET JEALOUS User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Talk to him again Well like George said jelousy can be a b**** but you got to learn how to control yourself or otherwise you alls relatinship is not going to last very long. Try talking to him again about it .Because beleive me i would react like that towards him to if he use to like one of my cousins before me.Also about him acting like your not in the room and hes on the computer or texting others girls on his phone, to me it seems like he has a little to much disrespect towards you . But maybe hes doing it on purpoose to make you feel like you do, i guess get attention. good luck! NENA The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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