What should I do?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I am currently in a relationship with someone who is very good to me. We have been together for almost 2 years. I keep going back to my ex-boyfriend and having sex with him. I can't seem to shake him. I know if my current boyfriend finds out, he will be very hurt. It seems that I have no peace! Everytime I build myself up to break things off with my ex, I end up at his house. He says he loves me and wants to be with me, but he wants me to be okay with him seeing other women all the other negative things that come with being with him. He knows that I will not accept those things and is the reason we are not together right now. I know he will end up hurting me again if I get back with him, but I still can't let go of him. I love my current boyfriend and I don't what him to find out. I am looking for some positive advice on what to do about this situation. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male get rid of your ex Get rid of your ex, u are only being used.. u clearly still have feelings for him... he does too but its in his dick, not his mind.. Your current boyfriend you should break up with too, but how is what you should focus on for now.. dont tell him, that will just be devastating for him... Telling him might make u feel better, but he will definately not... The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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