what's really bugging me is the fact that he hasn't said the words " I love you" to me yet



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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months now. Judging from the way he acts, I'd say he loves me. However, what's really bugging me is the fact that he hasn't said the words " I love you" to me yet. What might be some reasons why he's hesitatating to tell me that he loves me? Is it normal to be dating for this long and still not say "I love you" to each other?




User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Male
Love her


From a male who just wouldnt talk in any relationships - that is just lame. When I met THE one I wouldnt stop talking and saying I love you and expressing in EVERY WAY I could my feelings towards HER

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