How do i not hurt him?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female okay so i was with my exboyfriend for 360 days (practiclaly a year) and we broke up a little over a week ago. I started to hang out with a guy from my school after we broke up and 6 days after we had been broken up and i said yes to being his girlfriend. I had a lot of fun with him, but he had to leave for Canada for a week and half now and i can't talk to him. My ex boyfriend called me last night and said that he would do anything for me and that he changed. I love him very much and the reasons we broke up he promised he changed, so i want to be with him again. Now my boyfriend i am with now i have no contact with cause there is no reseption where he is in Canada and i have no way of telling him. I really don't want to hurt him he is a great guy and did nothing wrong i do like him but he just doesn't give me the butterflies my ex(ish)boyfriend does. I told my exboyfriend about my new boyfriend and said i wont be with him till i talk to my boyfriend and brake up with him. But the thing is i don't want to break up with him i mean i want to be out of this relationship with him cause i want my exboyfriend but i don't want to hurt him. I don't think it is fair to him and i feel really bad. Is there a way i can come out of this without hurting him badly. Should i break up with him? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female tell WELL LOL UR NOT THE ONLY ONE MINE WENT TO MEXICO AND HASNT CAMEBACK!!BUT IM GOING TO TELL HIM THAT THINGS ARENT REALLY WORKING OUT FOR ME...ND SRRY IF I HURT YOU OK ITS BETTER THAN LIEING!=D The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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