please help me...We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I am 18 and my boyfriend is 23, only he thinks i am 22. I didnt even think we would get together so when we first met i said i was 22. We have been going out for a little over 2 months now and i really love him. We have a special connection and i want to continue to get closer to him so bad. I know i have to tell him though, and i know it will break his heart. What do I do? How do i tell him? Please help me... User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male No problem Honestly, i dont believe ull "break his heart". he may be a little dissapointed, and rightfully so, becasue u werent honest with him initially. But if he truely loves u, it wont be the "end all to be all". u may just have to try a little harder in the future to prove that he can trust u. as long as ur relationship is "legal" age wise this isnt as big an issue as ur feleing it is right now. ive been there myself. A girl did the same thing to me sort of and when i found out she was 4 yrs younger then she told me, at that point we had been "seeing" each other for roughly 4 months, i was disapointed she wasnt honest with me sooner, but at that point i had also fallen in love with her. we had so much fun together that i didnt care otherwise and we were together in a serious realtionship for 3 yrs afterwards. Good Luck and Blessed Be The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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