I broke his heart and he broke mine and now i love him more than everWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female My ex boyfriend and i dated for 2 and a half years. Both in high school and while i've been out. He is still in high school and it has been hard with his family. Which hate the fact of us dating. We got through that but i couldn't get past that fact that i was going to college and he was staying behind so i broke his heart. When coming back home i found that i loved him more than ever, and we began to date again. After 6 months he decided that this wasn't going to work and ended it. After two months of not hanging out he called me out of the blue and told me he cheated on me but he was really sorry and that he really did love me but didn't want to get hurt again. I hated him for all of this i was crushed and i truly feel like i can't date anyone else now. It was even hard to hang out with my best friends cause they are his best friends to. Now we are friends with benefits and i want him back more than anything. I love him so much and just keep this hope that we will be more but his mom will not let us date. How do i get back together with the love of my life? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Move on Leave it off for a while. Thinking about it at this time will only hurt more. Try to keep your mind away from it for now, so you can allow the tention between you two. Eventually, when the pain seems to have eased you may come back to it, and between you discuss what you truely feel about eachother. If you and him still have strong feelings for eachother, then get back together. If on the other hand the love has died, then at least you have had a good discussion between you to confirm that it is over, and time to move on. Me and my ex had a heartbraking seperation. She no longer loves me, I still feel for her, but I'm just knowing how to cope with it, and ready to avoid me getting heartbroken again. Sad, but that's the way it is. And no matter how hard it is, we have to allow ourselves to move on. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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