I want my ex backWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 months for the 3rd time on the 14the of December 2007. Ive been trying to tell him how much Im sorry for breaking up with him but he said he needed time to think. On December 31 2007 I was raped by 2 boys. My ex came to the hospital and stayed for 7hrs from about 3:30 am to about 10:00am. He came and saw me again that night at home at about 6:30. He promised he would come back and see me that night no matter what. He ended up at the pub with his brother and two chicks. I called him it was about half past 12amn New years day and his friends Scotty*and Kelly*kept telling me to f off because my ex wanted nothing to do with me. I called my ex that day again and he said dont listen to them Im always going to be here for you. Now he says he doesnt think we should ever talk to each other again. Is he playing with my mind and too gutless to tell me the truth or is he scared of the situation? Please Help Me. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Talk to him Sometimes we all make mistakes. And you know, you start putting off things you should be doing for things you're enjoying. He obviously regrets doing that and thinks that there is gonna be a bumpy road ahead,I've been there myself. He thinks you two should stay away from eachother so nothing goes more wrong. However, nothing get's sorted out there. You must talk to him, and make him feel secure and in a position where he CAN tell YOU the truth. Be understanding of him, and don't get angry when he does. This will make him feel like he can let out the answers without too much trouble. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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