Pain of losing virginityWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female HI IM 18,MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR A YEAR NOW,AND HAV DISCUSSED HAVING SEX.WE ARE BOTH VIRGINS,BUT WHATS HOLDING ME BACK IS THE FACT THAT FRIENDS HAV TOLD ME LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY IS VERY SORE AND THAT THERE IS NO PLEASURE IN IT FOR THE FIRST FOUR OR FIVE TIMES,ME BEING TERRIFIED OF PAIN MAKES ME HOLD BACK.ARE THE FACTS OF MY FRIENDS TRUE???AND DOES IT PAIN THE WHOLE TIME WHILE WE ARE ACTIVE? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female I am in the same situtaion and yes i too am scared it will hurt but also i know my boyfriend will go slow and be gentle with me. a friend told me to kinda firgure out the discomfort you will feel, just put two fingers in your self and slowly spread them apart and this will also loosen you up a little. i hope this help and good luck. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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