Do i need to breakupWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female Im a 22 year old girl currently working freindly to a 23 year old boy for over 1 and half year. He is working. This boy is of my caste. He was from my college used to speak to him on phone and since then cant stay without speaking to him. We met and we started meeting every weekend. His quiet caring and understanding doesn't drink or smoke not hot tempered. Everthing is very smooth between us. He loves me very much. His financially also good. The thing is that his not quiet good looking and quiet shy. I have always wanted a tall guy but this person is just about my height a bit taller than me. Besides im taller than his dad. His family has accepted me. My family every1 is tall. My mom has seen him and she dint like him and has asked me to stay away from him just by lookin at him (looks). Besides my freinds and cousins too dint quiet like him coz of his looks they told you can get a better person than him. His got all the good qualities the only thing that pricks me is that i always wanted a tall guy and his not tall. And i think further in life i might repent on seeing my other freinds having a good looking guy. Do you think i should breakup with him coz of this. Will i get a better person with such qualities. Please tell me how do i tell him. If i dont breakup how do i make my family understand. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Looks grow old If you love him it shouldn't mater whether he is taller than you or if your mother doesn't approve. And as my mom always said... looks grow old, love and personality do not. But on the other hand, if you decide he is not the one for you tell him! There is nothing worse than getting dragged along in a relationship that is going no where. Hope that helps The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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