my boyfriend said that he does not want to get married in futureWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female Recently during our conversations, my boyfriend said that he does not want to get married in future. I was shocked and sad at he same time, but I tried to hide my feelings from him. He said he love me, but if he does not want to get married in future, then who am I to him? Does this mean that he is not serious at all about our relationship? If he’s not planning to get married, then where is our relationship heading? I tried to be amused by what he said by asking him why. He told me that he wanted to care for his two sisters(both deaf-mute), and make sure they lead a good life. I was touched by his answer. From the beginning, I knew he has a good heart. He’s the type of man I’m looking for. What should I do? I dream of a happy future with him. How do I make him change his stand? I want to assure him that his sisters will still be cared for, even if he gets married. Please help. User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female You are blind You are blind. It is an reason not to marry you. He can't commit. Marriage adds to you life, and if he wanted to commit he would. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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