My girlfriend is an alcoholicWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I met this really nice girl through a friend and we've been seeing each other for four months now. I usually like to take things slow, but because of our chemistry, things moved very fast. I learned early on that she has a drinking problem but is looking to stop. As a precaution, I prepared myself and told myself that I would leave if she ever chose alcohol over me. The first time she chose alcohol, I walked away and just about stopped talking to her. We only stayed together because she literally begged me and began detoxing. Things seemed to get better but she slipped up again and had a few drinks. Even though I have strong feelings for her and she has the same, do I get back together with her? I'm in the middle and don't know if this is something that will go away. As of this writing, we are not together and she is supposedly at a live in rehab. But she still calls asking for forgiveness and looking for another chance. User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Male Can't take it away hey..i understand i to am very in love with my girl whoose the sweetist most amazin women you could ever want-n im sorry for you as in the end is a broken heart...best to face whats coming n be yourself if you can put youre hand on youre heart in the end -you have to live with it-and if you loved once thats always there is no one can take that away so be brave n love yourself...well at least a little respect The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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