I need help, He doesnt love me the same situation.We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Well last night me and my boyfriend were at a car dealership and i asked him for a kiss, and he said ughh wait hold on and walked off. Then i was like ya know what whatever cuz i like kisses ya know who doesnt. So we get to his house and lay on his bead and i was like hun? and hes like what? i was like why havent i gotten a kiss or anything today? And then he let everything spill. He said he loves me but is not in love with me anymore. The feelings have changed. Of coarse i immediatly start crying. We had our ups and downs, and have been through a shit load of stuff. Broke up a time for a month or so but we still hung out 24/7 and we got back together. But now that he said that, i cant stop crying, i cant eat, i cant sleep, im going crazy. I love him so much, idk what to do. We had plans on moving to florida and continuing our lifes together down there, and now all these plans have changed I love him and his family sooo much. I need help, some advice that i can maybe go by. Idk please. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Stay in touch well of my experience i think that u should stay in touch but dont go over board,it might push him further away.Some guyz just need space and dont know how to tell u.But then again dont be too distant eighter.Ask him wat made his feelings change.And work on that.But stay positive.And show him every now an then that u love and care alot 4 him.Hope that helps The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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