How to attract a boyWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female yeah well i just wrote to you, and ill paste my old entry here and your response. ok, for starters, im 13. and theres this guy i like, but i never told him. hes really nice and stuff, but i knew he would never like me cause im not pretty and stuff. the thing is, i told a lot of people about him and someobdy i hated found out, but he said he would be quiet. but yesterday my friend said to the guy i like that she knows someobdy who liked him. he said yeah and then my name. then my friend was surprised that he knew, but she pretended like she was just shocked that i liked him. she said she likes you? and he said yeah. my friend said she was talking about someone else. she asked if he would go out with me, and he said im a good person but he doesnt want to go out with me. i was afraid that when he found out, he'd think i was weird or be embarrassed and things would be akward between us, but i guess hes known about it for a while and hes been acting normally. so what do i do now? i really like him and want to out with him, but he doesnt. help!!! now heres what you wrote: First thing to do is to make friends with him. Doing this is pretty easy. All you have to do is greet him everyday whenever you meet him in the hallway. Look him in the eyes and say in a clear voice "Hi" plus his name, and give him a big smile. Keep doing this until you feel comfortable enough to ask him how is doing and later on chatting with him. If he is a nice person he will be sure to like the attention you are giving him. Then you could ask him out. well the problem is that WE ARE FRIENDS. like we talk a lot in our classes and have interesting discussions. so we are friends, but as you can see above, he just doesnt like me. any suggestions? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Wait I don't know when this was posted, and if my entry is going to be well out of time or anything, but I noticed the person above advised you to "Try turn into someone else". You should not have to change for anyone. It's understandable you'll want to do anything you can to make him fall for you, but would you rather have to try make yourself a person you're not every day just so he likes you, or would you rather have someone who pines over you just the way you are? If he knows you like him, let him come to you. Also you're still very young, and as you get older you'll become more mature and much prettier, maybe he'll fall for you then. Good things come to people who wait. ;) I hope this has helped you x The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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