i am stuck between two peopleWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female So i have been dating this guy for a little over a year now and just last week i thought i was in love with him and nobody else mattered. But then just a few days ago i went out to my friends camp and her cousin was there, and we ended up flirting and stuff, then later we made out. the next day i met up with him in a club and we hung out again. now i am completely confused on who i like and what to do. I am stuck. How can i go from loving somebody to likeing somebody. i already broke my boyfriends heart before and i don't want to do that again. he is my best friend as well and is everything i am. help? User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female Ignore thrills My opinion.. From the way i see it The guy you love? or loved? the feelings you have for him are still there, this new one, its about the new attention... when youve been dating someone for a large period of time the attention you show eachother tends to drift.. not intentinally but you already no that you love echother so you show it less... theres nomore tring to impress eachother etc This new guy.. its the thrill.. his showing tou attention your liking the feel of it again its new... and thrilling of corse this guys is gona make u feel loved etc... but if youve only known him for a short period of time do u really think its worth it losing a year relationship over a guy who just likes the new thrills? The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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