flirting with my co-worker turned into a lust affairWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female I've been with my boyfriend for a year in a half. He is the sweetest guy ever, we hang out and both are into outdoor activities, but lately I've been feeling like we're more like friends than boyfriend and girlfriend. Everyone tells me i'm too young and that i should be having fun, but i dont know how to let him go. I think maybe what they said finally got to me because I went out with this hot guy who has recently been flirting with me. I heard this guy is bad news but yet I still went out with him. We went out on two dates and on the third date we finally kissed. My boyfriend has been asking where i've been but i make up stories so he dosnt find out. Me and my co-worker text eachother all the time and he sounds interested but I havent slept with him so im guessing thats what his waiting for. The weird thing is that i want to but im afraid if i do he'll never talk to me again. He's way older than me ( 7yrs older) we have nothing in common, i'm a total spaz and his so well achieved and mature. He told me he like me eventhough he was lieing I let my self fall for his sweet talk and let him kiss me. Okay here's the senario I care for my boyfrined alot and this guy rikindeld feelings of lust that i never felt before. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20 are we too young to to be so serious or do I sound like I'm making excuses to have sex with another man. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Advice from friends Being a 24 mother of 2 kids I know how you have felt I at 18-21 had the time of my life dating and clubbing but after a while it gets old because you later realize their is nothing out their but trouble, jeolousy, and diseases that you wont be able to get rid of. If you boyfriend treat you good stay with him better yet tell him how you feel. They man only wants to have sex with you he's probably married. After you do it you will regret it always advice from friends arent the best BECAUSE 9 out of 10 times they are single with nobody and what they for you because you are happy and content dont let your friends ruing your happiness. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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