Should we break up?



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
I recently broke up with my gf of 3 yrs. I haven't really felt like being intimate with her for a long time. We have been living together and I just have been feeling smothered. I love her, but have never felt that overwhelming sense of love - even in the begining. She moved out 3 weeks ago and I am missing her and questioning my decision. She is the sweetest, most loyal woman I have ever dated and I'm just not sure if I'm being to picky. We get along great for the most part - my biggest complaint is that she is too clingy. Please advise a confused guy. Thanks!




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Nobody is perfect


This is the main mistake people do. They always take decisions and then regret them. And do you know why? Because it is then they realize that they are not perfect and can't ask perfection from somebody else. Deal with others faults as gently as you deal with your own. Hope this gives you a little help in solving your problem.Wish you the best!

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