What do i do when things are so confusing?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Ok so. My ex and i were very very happy together but we were fighting towards the end of our break up, and we have been separated for a few months. He has come back at least 5 times, though, but we have never gotten back together because he always gets scared about what happened before, and then he leaves and doesn't talk to me for a while. Its getting really hard to keep going along with this because he tells me how much he misses me and everything, and then leaves without a warning, so i don't know what to do. Also, he always stares at me with the look he used to have for me and drops hints, but it is really confusing when he acts like he doesn't care after. I am always very happy when we talk, but it gets harder and harder every time he leaves and knowing he will probably leave. I just want to get back together, and i've heard about playing hard to get, but i'm not sure. HELP! User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female Call him on this I feel that there is something going on with him and how he feels. He seems apprehensive on staying with you but wants you to keep hanging on. He may have other things going on out there or other people he is seeing. You should call him on this and stick to a final break up, get on with your life. Maybe he then will be forced to make a decision. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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