Pregnant and left outWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female Hi There I wanna ask. I am almost 26 and my guy is almost 30. He is stable economically and he works well. I just found out that I am almost 1 month pregnant but there are situations that confusing me. First. My guy asked me to abort the child then when I said I did not want it, he changed his word that he will marry me next year after my child arrives. He said he has no enough cash to build a family (building a family does not need cash, does it?) but in fact he is so stable economically. Then a week later, he told me that his families do not approve our marriage, although all along, I got along well with his family. I had no troubles with his parents and they are still so nice to me until now. Deep in my heart, I knew, he just made an excuse to deny any responsibility as the father of the child. I had no courage to tell about my pregnancy to my families at home and or his families because I feel that it is useless to be married with him because I know he does not love me anymore and he wants to date someone else prettier than me. What should I do, dear friends? Should I keep my beloved child or abort it? Thanks User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Abortion Heyyy, pls do not abort the baby. i prefer the first option George gave. no matter what happen never abort the baby. Cus u know that most woman who abort their baby wont have peace of mind or peace in their life later on. Don worry. if he dont love his baby, as u go along, u wil meet a better man who loves u and ur baby more. always being that after every hardship comes ease! But pls dont make same mistake again. which means try not to sleep with man who wont wanna take responsibility of hsi action. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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