help me im in alot of pain i still love himWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female ok well i didnt treat him good and i cheated on him once he forgave me.but he kept giving me chance after chance we were together for two yrs.but i kept treating him bad.we broke up almost three months ago.and over a month ago he came back but i was seeing someone.anyways after i dump that guy by christmas i find out that he has a girlfriend then on new yrs shes pregnant and he dont care for me anymore.then today he says hes having twins and they are getting married to leave him alone.well just over a month ago he said he wanted me now since he got a girl he dont care for me.he only been with this girl for a month.you cant tell your having twins if your only four weeks along can you?how can someone go from loving you for two yrs to not caring about you at all over a month.he dont even know this girl and already marrying her.i learn my lesson and would never do that stuff again .so how do i get him back?my parents said if you leave him alone he may come back in a few months.he had hes mom call me today and say leave him alone he dont love you he has moved on.so what do i do?i cry everyday i love him so much User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Karma biting if you loved him you shouldnt have cheated... you dont no what love is if you can lay down with another man and not stop yourself.. your love for him should over power any lust you have for anyone.... did you just figure out you love him? because if you loved him before you cheated then your love isnt TRUE.. if its true love you would have never cheated... he has every right to leave you and never get with you ever again.. and if you an honest person you would agree with me... next time if you ever truely find out how to love someone you wont make the same mistake.. and hopefully karma wont turn around and bite you in the ass... and this time you will be the one cheated on.... best of luck... honestly... The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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