i broke off the relationship and told her to call if she wanted to take responsibilityWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 51-60 year old Male I began dating a woman who had been married for 23 years..she divorced a year ago..im only the 2nd man she has ever been with period..we hit it off good..chemistry,sex.. whole nine yards..both agree its great..been going out 3 months..she now tells me i make her feel like she is married again..she would like to still date me exclusively but with no responsibility towards the relationship..she travels alot..and says she doesnt want to have to feel like she has to call me when she is out of town....i feel like that is a fundamental part of the relationship..we talked about everything calmly..i broke off the relationship and told her to call if she wanted to take responsibility..i think i stood up for myself..please give me your opinion. curious User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Two to tango If the phone calls are that important to you, then yes, you did the right thing. If the distance is too great, then you should not regret what you did. We all have needs, but on the other hand, how much do you want to be with her? This is a decision that you have to live with. It might have been too soon for her to be in another relationship. How was the first one she was in? It takes two to make things work. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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