need advice!!!! help!!!!We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Hi im having trouble alot of trouble with my boyfriend. we have been together for more than a year. in the whole year we have been together he has never asked about how many past kicks(people ive made out with) have i had until last nite.i answered back pretty rudely saying why should it matter. hes hurt now bc of the fact i didnt answer the quest and because he is worried dat he is in some sort of 'list'. im in love with him and im not sure if he sees that and how much ive changed in the sense that im not the girl that would cheat on him ever even though ive done it in the past before i knew him. and ive done everything i could do to have him see that im in love with him. how can i make it better please help=.( User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male I would say that the best thing to do is talk about the past because if u guys are together than you have to trust eachother and understand that the past is the past and that you are making new memories together where it doesnt matter what happened before and to be willing to work everything out no matter what went on. Good Luck :) The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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