Can't get over him ),:We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female Well there was this guy in my class and he was dating another girl. One night, about 2 or 3 days after I had started texting/messaging him, he told me he liked me and I told him that I liked him back. Then the next day he told his girlfriend that I liked him, but not that he liked me but she found out that part later and she broke up with him after a 5 month relationship. Then like an hour after their breakup, he asked me out and of course I said yes. Then he asked me to our schools winter formal which was 4 days later. We were doing fine and two days later I kissed him, my first kiss ever. He was my first real boyfriend ever and I was about his 10th. So we did fine and went to the dance and he kept saying how much he loved me and how amazing I was. We never sopped texting the whole time we were dating. Then the night after the dance, he txted me and asked if we could just be friends for like 3 days cause he was super busy and didn't know if he'd have time to hang out and be a good boyfriend. I said yes then the next day we were at school and I saw him walking with some other girl and my friend said that he'd said that we had broken up. And he had been dating the other girl since 4 days before, 2 nights after we started dating. I didn't get mad thoughh, I got sad and after I texted him for a while we talked a while and I (stupidly) forgave him. But he thought I was fine but I've cried every day since and, akthough our relationship only lasted 5 days, I loved him and now we're friends but I miss him so much and I still love him. I just wish I knew why he broke up with me and I wanna stop crying. I loved him so much though. Help please.. D: User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Ask Him you cant, stick with him, you need to have funn with your friends, and try to avoid him at school, and if you really want to know why you guys broke up, go right out and ask him, just keep your head up. it will all work out in the end,. you cant let your heart fall for someone like that. because in the end your the one in pain, and they have already moved on. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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