I Have Cheated & I want my Ex BackWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I have cheated on my girlfriend for the third time now and she broke up with me and said she has given me too many chances now and she is not going to give me another chance to be with her. She said there is nothing I can do or say to her that will change her mind, she said she can never trust me again and she will not take me back at all! She said that she has made her decision and it will stay that way and there is no way on earth even in the future she will ever be with me as she cannot ever trust me again! She doesn't reply to any of my messages or phone calls, she is just ignoring me! She wants me to leave her alone forever and she says there is no chance of us getting back together. She said she will never be with me again and she said "that's a promise!" & once she makes a promise she will never break it! Do you think there is any chance of me to get her back even though this is the third time??? There must be someting I can do?? I would appreciate it if you can help. Waiting to hear from you. Regards, Jatin User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Talk to Her jatin. this is your third time, this advice could maby still work for you but this all depense on how much you love her and really mean it apoligizing is the first step, for what you have done and make sure its for the right reson's and if she is going to argue or say somthing thats going to start a fight keep calm, show her you were in the wrong. Give her time and space, give her time to miss you because by texting and calling all the time is only going to annoy her more, leave it for a wile and if she decides to try and contact you mayby ignore that call, give her her thoughts on were could he be then later call her back say you have been bussy shel be think then ask to talk to her face to face, when you do dont presure into taking you back or cry to much this just makes her think your being really silly. FINALLY! this girl has feelings and you have hurt them not only once but several time's theres a saying learn form your mistakes but after the second time this is not an issue this is a question for you, do you want her or not? so think about why you cheated in the first place and ask your self is it that you want her back out of guilt or love? The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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