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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi my name is Briana and i have a hige problem
i started going out with this guy named chris in october15 and it seemed like we were the perfect couple blonde hair blue green eyes like barbie n ken it jus seemed so perfect n right.but 2days later he calld me up and said would you rather have a open relationship than a real one.. i said hell no, if ya want to be with me then be with me if u dont then dont, so then we stayed together and then i got a phone call fromt his girl that said hey briana i have fun with your boyfriend tonight so i called chris and asked him what happened of course he denied it and then i calld back that girl her name is Jospehine and she 3wayd him and then i found out there so i was so mad n sad and he kept caling so he kept apolgizing and said it wont eva happen again, so i said oh okey..so along come halloween and he came ova to my house and we had sex and i shouldnt have i loved him and he "*LOVED me"* so i found out 2 days lata he had sex with that josephine so i was like thats it we are over i was so heartbroken i cried myself 2 sleep everynight, he calld evrynight and wants 2 get back 2getha and says he will chnage but now he is w/ that jospehine and now he is still sayig that he still wants to do stuff w/ me but it would just be between him and me and i love him and he told me he loves n so then we got back togetha and it lasted 5weeks and then he cheated on me again, and he said it was a moment and now i cant get over him and i still want to ve w. me even thou we hurt me so bad and i just do not know hat 2 do, so i had sex with him and i found out he was going out with someone..he told me h wasnt so no whe wants 2 get back 2getha w/ me and i dont know wut 2 do i need help asap please
thanks
love ya
Briana
i am 15 and he is 16 and that josephine is only 13 a 7th grader and him and me are freshman

plz help me i am suffering so bad

plz help me




User Submitted Advice from a unknown year old Female

If i were you, i would sit and talk to him and say if you really love me then why are you treating me this way. Plus that girl Josephine shouldn't even be with him, you should tell her he's mine, hands off. Another thing, you shouldn't have ever had sex with him. That was a bad thing to do, because you say, you gave it to him twice? am i correct? you shouldn't give him anything at all until you kno it will really mean something, and not just he said i love you and i loved him so i wanted to. That's totally wrong honey!

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