Me and my ex-boyfriend are at each other's necks with rude things to sayWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female i had a boyfriend for around 1 month and he lives in british columbia and i live in ontario. when we met he had a girlfriend but he said that he wanted me to so i said ok and a few days later he dumped her i had him all to myself for 1 week when my flirty friend met him and he started to change i saw some conversations thta they had and i found he was cheating on me with MY BEST FRIEND!!! i broke up with him and a day later he promised that he wouldn't cheat anymore so i accepted and we were going back out. when my other friends saw his picture they started to like him and they were telling me that he was a cheater then yesterday he told me that he had to break up wif me because his dad said he had to wait a year to get a girlfriend later he quickly said that my best friend asked him out and he said yes i got so mad and yelled at both of them i am now friends with my best friend again but me and my ex-boyfriend are at eachothers necks with rude things to say we don't even talk anymore he blocked me and i blocked him but him and my bestfriend aren't going out because she already had a boyfriend i want him back but i don't think he wants me and i'm not sure if he will hurt me again. what should i do i'm dying without him i am 13 years old by the way and he is 14 thanks User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Things will get better and life is beautiful Honestly hun, you're 13 years old. Don't waste your time with boyfriends and love, life the life of a teenage and realize who matter, who doesn't, who was always there and who wasn't. Get your self some good honest friends and don't worry about silly boys. Live you're life happy and don't get stressed out over someone else mistake. It is clear to my that you're best friend isn't really the best for you along with this boy. You're a young teenage girl and you have you're whole life ahead of you dear. Do you really think these people are going to be your friends and this boy is going to be with you forever? Letting go may be the hardest thing to do, but it's one of the best things you can do for yourself. You need to think about yourself, don't please other people if you're just pushing your own feelings aside, its not healthy and you seem like a nice girl and deserve a lot better. Don't let their negativity bring down you're positive. It's just a speed bump in the this crazy thing called life and two years from now this problem wont even faze you. It a big wide world out in front of you and there is definitely a reason why the people in the past didn't get a chance to make it to your future, so don't let other people bring you down cause your better than that. Forget about yesterday, prepare for tomorrow and live for today girly. Things will get better and life is beautiful, do you really want destructive, ignorant heartless boys to be what makes and breaks you? C'mon girly your much better than that. -Trishaa. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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