Addicted to cheatingWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female Can you be addicted to cheating? I seem to always want to cheat on all my boyfriends because I get bored with them. I don't know how to "fix" this problem I have. I am ruining my self-esteem not to mention I am hurting other people in the meantime. Please help me. I am 20 years old. User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female I am quite a bit older than you (I was married for 15 years) and once I cheated it became an ongoing thing. My problem is that even when I think I have finally found the man of my dreams... he ends up beginning to take me for granted... so BEFORE I cheat I tell him, "Things need to change, you know my past. Let's talk about stuff..." Most guys don't want to talk about anything bad, so what happens? I end up cheating. I often wonder if I will ever be able to stop... and then I think, "I just haven't met the right man yet." ~ The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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