We're Bored and Taking a BreakWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male Hi i recently broke up with my girlfriend of a little over a year, we had both been talking about and understood how things just didnt seem the same and how we were definately getting a little bored of each other. I still talk to her usally twice a day but i have proposed and agreed that we should see other people for a little while being that this was the longest relationship either of us had ever had. We always have fun when we are together and we are still there for each other and we love each other very much it's just the fact that taking a break from each other seems like the logical thing to do if we are experiencing boredom. We always hung out 1 on 1 and we rarely saw friends and i think that this is what got us into the position we are in today. When we talk about getting back together she still says that she isn't fully positive if we should or not. Do you think that she is just going through an awkward period in her life right now because that's the way it seems. Everything was fine up until about a month ago. Should i give her time to breath and experience life or just move on? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Yeah i'm in the same situation. My girlfriend wanted time apart cause shes unhappy with her life. shes very busy with uni and work and i'm busy as well so because we dont see eachother as much as we used shes asked for time apart. we've always gotten along really well, i have felt a dimished sex drive in the later parts of our 1 year + relationship but its come back now so i want her back even more. i think if you love her, and u want to be with her stick with her. girls just wanna have fun. be a fun guy and she'll come back on her own accord The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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