Trying to get him backWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female GEORGE, FIRST OF ALL, THANK YOU FOR REPLYING TO MY LAST QUESTION. I WROTE TO YOU ABOUT WANTING MY EX BACK. YOUR ADVICE WAS TO LET HIM GO UNTIL HE MATURES. THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THAT THIS GUY IS MATURE IN SO MANY WAYS AND I REALLY WANT TO BE WITH HIM. I WROTE HIM A LETTER EXPLAING THAT I THINK WE SHOULD TRY AGAIN. DO YOU THINK IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO GIVE IT TO HIM? I CAN HAVE SOMEONE GIVE IT TO HIM TONIGHT SO PLEASE RELPY FAST :) IF YOU WERE HIM, WHAT WOULD MAKE YOU WANT TO COME BACK? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female I am going through what you are right now. My boyfriend and I split whom I love and really feel is the one! I feel that if you truly love this person, you will not give up. I know it sounds easy to say that, but it isn't. I learned the hard way..with one of my previous relationships--I gave up after he said goodbye and lost all hope and then when he was pouring his heart out to me 7 months later, I turned him down, not because I did not love him(because I did), but because of my pride..I had lost hope in "us". With that in mind, when I finally met Brandon, (which is the one that I said I just broke up with and want back), I asked myself what makes a relationship work? I even prayed about it and you know what the answer is "do not give up" ..if you think about it,I'm right. If you do everything you can to fix things no matter how bad, then you will know you tried. In the end I think you will feel better..so my advice to you is get your man girl!!! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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