Communicate more with him



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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Man shit just ain't going right for me. I got a nigga, but he ain't acting right at all. He made me so mad Saturday, I couldn't even enjoy Winter Ball. I spent half the time crying. I got a guy that I would really like to mess with, but he got a girl, and they serious. I got a freshman that I like, but everybody saying that he cocky, lame, childish, etc.. I just don't know what to do. I love my man, but the way he's been acting lately just ain't been keeping me happy. I just asked him to take me to see Coach Carter, but he said he can't cause he got to much homework. So I guess I should understand, but he didn't come to Winter Ball, so the least he could do is take me to go see the damn movie. I don't know what to do. I can't just leave him alone, cause I have invested to much in this relationship. I gotta try to make this work. I love him! I ope I ain't wasting my time. I guess what they say is true. You gotta learn from your mistakes. Hopefully this ain't one of the mistakes I gotta learn from! Hey if you got some advice, I need it, so please give it!




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female

i think that you should express your feelings with him and tell him that you REALLY like him and you want to stay together, but while your at it, tell him that yall need to spend more time together.

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