Trying to get him backWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I am a 20 year old female. My ex and I dated for three years. Our relationship was perfect, we seldom argued and we loved to do the same things. He broke up with me two months ago and his reason was that we had dated me for three years and that he was tired of being in a relationship. He is twenty two. We have been togeather sence i was 16 and he was 19. He says that he still loves me and has feelings for me. I am just very confused, I love him more than anything!!! I want him BACK. When I call him he always is very short and most of the time says that he will call me later, which he never does. I have seen him a few times since we broke up and we have slept together I just dont see things getting better. I wish i knew what happened so that i could fix things. I know that it has to be more than he just dosn't want to be in a relationship right now. Please i need some advice. Do i need to stop calling him? Is it a bad idea to still be sleeping with him? I am just so scared it feels like my life is falling apart, He brings out the best in me and i havent felt happy sence we broke up. Any advice would help. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female To me it sounds like this guy is just using you for the sex. He doesn't want a relationship because he knows he will only be able to have sex with one woman. He thinks he can manipulate you because you are younger than him. Try to move on. There are plenty of men out there who want a relationship and will devote themselves to you. Although you might think that you need him to be happy, he is the one making you depressed. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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