Getting Over my ExWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago.I'm only 14 and me and him went out for 4 months.I dunno if that would be considered long or what.But those for months of my life were the best.I had my first kiss with him and first guy I actually got close to.I fell in love with him.I loved him so much. But within those four months me and him broke up twice..but went back out within a week.So..when we broke up this time I was hoping we'd go back out soon.But its been a month now and we haven't yet.And I still like him SO much..and I might even still love him. He's already went out with 2 others girls.So..I believe he's moved on and doesn't like me anymore.But now were still talk like 3 hours on the phone every night,and were good friends.But then at school he can sometimes act like a real jerk..But everytime I'll see him with his girlfriend at the time( he's single right now) or flirting with another girl it just kills me.It seems like all I ever do is think about him.I feel as if I'm obssessed.Which I don't like. I want to move on,forget about him.But everytime I try or I think I am.Then all of a sudden I start thinking about all the great memories of being with him.And I start to like him more and more.Then even at times I almost cry. Why does it still hurt so much?I still hope we'll go back out.But me and him has talked about it,we decided that it probably wouldn't work out and didn't want to go through all the pain we felt when we broke up.But I'm still feeling it.Should I tell him how I feel?What should I do?Or should I just keep trying to get over him?If so how? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Same Situation hiya i'm 14 to. I was in that same situation to at one point! I went out with this boy who i propa liked. He was really popular at the time but i never got a chance to pull him because everyone was always in my face about it. It was horrible the way everyone swarmed around us about every single thing we did. It got to me so much i ended it after 2 months and after we became best of friends. I loved him in a different way and was happy for him to move on. Untill a while ago he went out with his 1st girlfriend again (who is gorgeous) and now i think i feel jelous. I know this sounds strange but i just think about how we were and see it as a great memorie but i had to move on! I hope this advice comes in handy for you and good luck! and remember if after this you still LOVE him follow your heart and tell him how you feel. Good Luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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