She's got Lots of Male FriendsWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I have been going out with my girlfriend for two & a half years now. My main problem was the fact that she is selfish. When we started going out she said that I should know that she has male friends, I acknowledged that, but what bothers me is the fact that these guys call her at night all the time and lately she has been getting calls from her friends' boyfriends. I spoke to her about it and she said she's not the one asking them to call her. (Yet my problem is she is encouraging it). I know for a fact that great relationships are the ones that from friendships and that makes me feel that she is going to end-up with one of them or she is/ has cheated on me with one of them. It's a feeling I get and I'm unable to prove it. I alaways thought I was paranoid but sometimes you can only go with your gut feeling! What do I do? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Let Her Have Friends These best friends respect her and know that she has a boyfriend, and they consider her just as friend now even before, they like her. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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