He's Dating Someone Else but Flirts with Me



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
please help... I dated my ex for 4 years and we broke up eight months ago.. He is now dating a girl he works with but occasionall he calls me especially when I am seeing someone else. He told me about four months ago that he still loves me and he followed me home one night and also told me he missed me so much.

Some people have commented to me that we will be back in no time but the problem with me is that he is dating that girl since we broke up. He hardly ever brings her around and when he does he does not speak to me in front her.

I can't understand that if he wants me back why he is not really trying. Some of my friends said he admitted he loved me but I just don't know who to believe. please advise




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Believe He Misses You


He doesn't want to talk to you in front of her cause she'll get mad. But he really loves you and if he told you he missed you then believe him. He's scared that his girlfriend will get mad. Well I wish you take my advice and believe him.

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