Have a fling?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female My husband and I have been married for nearly 6 years, together for almost 8. Last May he took a job in another city, closer to his family. We just bought a house (between his sister and mom) and I just got a job closer to the new place. My problem: It's complicated. There's only room in a marriage for two people. But now that we are living so close to his family we are always with them. It bugs me and he knows it. We're never alone. There is no sex life. Enter a friend of ours who I've known as long as my husband and who've I've been attracted to for sometime. We flirt all the time, but since he is married to I never thought anything more of it. Well, this week he made a pass and I accepted. So far there hasn't been anything more than kissing, fondling and talking. I miss the talking with my husband. Anyway, I'm thinking of taking this new relationship further. I really don't see the harm since I am leaving in a week and will probably not see this other man. As long as my husband doesn't find out, I feel no guilt. What should I do? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Don't Start - Get Help You run the risk of corruption. If you are at that point that you would feel no guilt, you're wrong. You would take that step and then all is lost because one fling turns into two and two into three. it is hard to stop. But think about if the other man enjoys it too. That he may want you to the points of exposing your husband for himself. I know it is hard to deal with. if your serious about it then get help with your marrage. Good luck The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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