Should I break up with my boyfriend for an ex?



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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
ok muh first love was with this guy named octavio...(and the only one i have ever loved) well we havent been dateing for almost a year now... and havent really talked... and i have a new bf... but i dont love him.. But now me and octavio started talking again and i still love him and i told him that.. so now hes thinking about what he should do... but now i donno what to do... should i wait and see what octavio's decision is befor i break up with muh bf? help plz




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
He has baby


well i think that you should follow your heart see who do you like or who has been truthly real to you. i mean sure that one feeling that you have for Octavio is very strong but you know what they say if it is true love you must let it go and move on this is something often people say to me i am in the same situaton now well mine is a bit deferent see i had this boyfriend which is my ex now that i loved to much. the way i meat him is pretty cheese but i guess ok here it goes i met him on a party line well you have probably heard abot it well anyway i met him end we talked we whent out we had such a gerat time together but then just about being a long time with him there came this one girl with a baby on her hands telling with that it was his kid which is very odd cause she never came up to him when she was pregnat i was with him all this time when he had some other girl pregnat men did i felt my heart crush into a billion pices well they went to do all the DNA and stuff well yes the kid was his so after that day i wanted nothing with him no more but is not like i was going to share him ither, so we decided to break up. i didn't date not until 2 years whish is now i finally have a boyfriend but not going all that good right now he has this crazy idea that i still have fellings for my ex boyfriend. i dont know what to do but there is one thing that i do know and that is that im not talking to him no more and he is not well you are probably all boared on reading this but yeah it is sort of how you feel and between me and you yes i still have feelings for my ex but i did get all mad for what my boyfriend saud hesaid you still have feelings for your ex so why dont you go back with him we had our first argument and well is not going all that good at all. well got to let you go all right.

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