please help me she was my 1st love and means everything too meWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male hi i hav been on this before about a ago. i hav just split up with my ex about 6 weeks ago. she says she doesn t love me anymore which i don t believe then she wants me to ring her up and that she misses me. she texted me in the morning asking for sex saying no one makes me feel like you do. she says she still loves me but can t be in a relationship. she has her exams and is moving house and schools and her mum is marrying someone else. so she has got a lot happening in her life. the thing is i don t understand we never argued we loved each other so much then she just changed she looks tired and stressed. we hav recentley argued which we never used to do but she is not just arguing with me it is her friends and familly. I really want her back because i am happy when am with her. i need your advice please. i know she loves me but she can t face it.last week i sent her a big long text message saying i will always love her but i can t see you anymore or talk to you because it is hurting me too much and it is in your hands if u want me back. she still hasn t contacted me and am getting worried. please help me she was my 1st love and means everything too me User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Talk to her ok..let me just tell u straight up that i am goin through the exact same thing right now...but it is my boyfriend, well ex..thats unsure about "us". I think honestly u should sit down with her..talk things out..i mean yes maybe she really does love u, but if she feels obligated to other things to where she's gonna have no time for u..then thats not helping u out very much. My advice is to talk with her..and if you're not the most important thing to her in life..move on to someone else, bc i think there's someone out there for everyone, dont waste your time waiting for her whenever u already know she has no time for u. Talk with her..and get it straight..and then if u dont feel important enough to her..move on. Its hard but you'll be glad in the long run. Good luck~! Tiffany The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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