im still trying to overcome this terrible pain that im feelingWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male hey, thanks for your previous replies. im still trying to overcome this terrible pain that im feeling, is there anything i can do to overcome the intense pain and anxiety that im feeling. because at the moment im not functioning properly, i cant study, im about to fail many classes, i cant eat and im even rude to my family members and friends. this pain is so overwhelming ive never felt any thing like this before. and i just get the feeling that when i get on the plane im going to have a massive anxiety attack. ive never loved anyone nearly this much and i feel like it may never be the same again, cause the more we fight about it the more i can see her getting driven away, and may not want to get back with me etc. thanks User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male It will be ok Mate i know what your going through, My girly of 2 years broke up with me last week in totally ambigous circumstances. I had just started my week of study break before all of my exams and all i can do is look at the photos of our time together and cry like a little bitch. Its hurts i know, she said to me 'I want to be alone' and then left my house. I sent her a text saying what was going on and she basically said she didn't want to be in our relationship anymore... She sms'd out of a 2 year relationship now I have to study for exams! But I just figure her loss, i love the girl like crazy and it makes me want to vomit over everyone that's happy right now but if she can't appreciate you then thats her problem and you will find someone that does. The problem is getting over the thing where you thought she did appreciate how good you are, really u just wanted her too because she gave it up. But not the case, women are very strange things and it seems the better looking they are the stranger they become. You have to just accept that some crazy shit is going on in her head you will never understand and just resign yourself to the fact that they don't make sense, don't try to understand, just deal with the moment like you have to becuase it won't last forever. Figure out a way to get through your course... How nice will it be when you've finished it and are gettin paid and found someone new when you walk past her in the street. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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