He and I were like Romeo and Juliet (we really were, I mean we truly truly loved eachother)We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Hello, ahh ok this is my like 5th time writing. But things keep changing. Okay well I asked about giving my ex the letter I wrote. The thing is, my friend told me something about him wanting to see another girl in his online journal thing. So I went there and he had written that he is dissapointed because he really liked this one girl and wanted to get to know her better, but she is probably getting back with her ex. He wrote that he wants her to see how nice of a guy he is and how good he'll treat her. He also wrote about how everyone hes interested in seems to be taken. I am absolutely devastated. He told me he didnt want to date anyone, the way he was acting around me and the things he said completely left me with no doubt about that. But now I read this, and I cant even believe it. We were together for almost 3 years, everyone I know cant believe this. Everyones just as confused as me, saying that him and I were like Romeo and Juliet (we really were, I mean we truly truly loved eachother)....I dont understand how after a month he could just have moved on completely from that.... We have never sat down and talked about why we broke up. I still dont even know completely why he doesnt want to be with me. So I dont know if I should still go through with the letter. I was jealous and stuff, and didnt give him the freedom he wanted. He keeps saying he likes being free and single...but he wants this new girl?? I want to show him that I can change how I was, that things dont have to be the way they were, that he can be with me and still experience being young. I thought he still had feelings for me, was sure he had to because after 3 years of what we had you dont just forget about someone in a month...and was hoping to hit those feelings with my letter...but now I dont know. I dont know what to do. It "seems" like hes still interested...but hes interested in this other girl, but he has to have feelings for me still right?? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Gone to LTC hi im in the same position and my boyfriend just left on friday and he broke up with me and said he doesnt want to go out when he is going somewhere far away and i dont understand why and he told me after he is inished with his college he is going to take law school so that is six years and he plans to stay over cuz he is going to the army so i dont know why he just cant stay with me or work this out and he comes back on july 18 for alittle while and i am going to try to get back atleast and work things out ya know so i dont know pretty sure of how it might work. before he had left he took a bunch of pictures of me does that mean something? does he really miss me? and he said he will miss me alot. but now he is in traing in LTC in Pennsylvaia for 4 weeks and i dont know where but i really want him back, i know we are truly in love and i plan to talk to him about coming to move there after m college to be with him and i dont know if he loves me. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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